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Growing up, the youngest of four and the only boy following three assertive sisters, I received more input into each decision I faced than imaginable. Respecting my sisters, I used my position to accumulate their perspectives, frequently polling them for advice on the best options for me. From selecting classes and activities to my wardrobe, my sisters were a virtual banquet of advice. Once I recognized their input as support, I actually became grateful to my sisters for prodding me into trying new experiences.
Over time, I developed my own voice, seeking independence from my sisters’ well-meaning input. As a qualified, competitive tennis player, I decided to play international tournaments in Europe and now, I was digesting a completely new experience, one I had chosen. Although I was in a place of so many family memories, I was eager to create new ones as I excitedly walked onto the red clay court and began my tournament. Tennis has become an unrelenting passion of mine, though admittedly, it began at my sister’s suggestion. Today it is intrinsic to my character to consider my options and come to my own conclusions; just as choosing whether to serve down the middle or to the outside line, my decisions are my own. Winning the match that day affirmed my decisions were the right ones. Now I realize my sisters not only exposed me to a plethora of options and opportunities but they ultimately enabled me to feel the empowerment behind making my own decisions. |